Her entire life seems to revolve around her bisexuality/pansexuality. She never stops taking about whichever identity she is, she only watches media with LGBT characters and relationships, listens almost exclusively to LGBTQ identifying artists, and constantly hates on “the straights.” She complains when her English books feature straight relationships, and even runs an LGBTQ meme Instagram page. actually sexually and romantically attracted to? I don’t understand how anyone could know their SEXUAL orientation without an actual desire? Which is why I’m afraid that she’s faking it for attention. However, isn’t sexuality something that depends on who you’re. I understand not being ready for it, and she is a bit younger than I am. However, she also mentions that she’s never felt sexual attraction, and thinks kissing/sex/any sort of non-platonic touching is something she’s not ready for. While I don’t center my life around it, some people certainly do. I know that everyone values their sexuality differently.
(I, on the other hand, don’t really bring it up unless someone I trust asks). She currently identifies as pansexual/bisexual (it depends on the day), and never stops talking about it. On the other hand, you have my closest friend. My identity is the result of a lot of gut-wrenching self doubt and self-criticism, and it took me a lot of heart-to-heart, confidence restoring conversations to accept that I wasn’t broken or weird for having sexual feelings/fantasy dreams about girls and guys. I told my doctor about my thoughts and “weird” desires, and she assured me that it’s highly possible I’m bisexual. I’m still not out to my parents, which is a massive challenge, but I’ve talked to several trusted adults about my feelings. It’s been quite the ride, from horribly puzzling feelings about my ex best-friend to weird thoughts and dreams that made me feel wrong, especially since I live in a conservative household. My sexuality took me a while to come to terms with, but I didn’t fully realize it until this year, after I broke up with my first boyfriend. I’m an almost sixteen year old bisexual girl.